A New Dawn- Beyond Patriarchy
Estimated Read Time: 12 minutes The moment I laid eyes on it, I had to have it. It was December,
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This is me (above) walking my daughters English Bull Dog, Ollie this past March 2024. Notice my jeans. Trendy huh? I may be late to this decade old fashion craze but look closely. Mine are a bit different. The frayed holes you see were made the old-fashioned way… I earned them. Several years of yardwork, hiking and kneeling on every imaginable surface did the trick. Now, it’s time to retire them. Throw them out. Use them for rags or recycle them if possible. Whatever. My mother would be proud. She of course would never approve of my wearing them in public, even on a remote trail. Why would you let others think you were poor? Or, working as a menial laborer? Not because she looked down on those that were but because her standards went beyond anyone’s current financial situation.
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I apologize to those I am about to offend, primarily women. At the risk of being ostracized, canceled, doxed or shunned here goes. Please stop wearing denim jeans that are intentionally distressed: by adding holes, rips, tears or frays. Either by yourself or by laborers in 3rd world countries. This fad has gone on far too long.
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For what feels like an eternity, you’ve seen jeans like mine, worn as a fashion statement by celebrities, housewives’ students, and some adventurous men. Blown out knees, thighs, fannies, and dramatically, frayed cuffs define the look. Some appear to have been blasted with shotguns, grenades, land mines or perhaps the result of being mauled by a pack of Pit bulls. Whatever statement you were trying to make is duly noted. Now it’s just silly. Please stop.
I am not a fashion aficionado and, in all probability, out of my depth. But I feel compelled to speak up. Let me tell you why I feel so strongly about this fashion craze. Wearing distressed jeans, in my opinion is:
This is the short version. I will elaborate further but first a little background.
A Brief History of Denim Jeans
Denim jeans were first developed in the 19th century by Levi Strauss essentially for the working-class including miners, farmers and factory workers. Since their introduction in 1873 denim jeans have cemented their presence across all levels of society, spanning many decades, and numerous social movements.
Wearing denim jeans in the early years meant you were doing manual labor and living below the poverty line. Unable to afford replacements workers’ jeans often sported rips, tears holes and frayed cuffs.
Hollywood began showing denim jeans on Cowboys in movies during the 1920’s and 30’s. But denim jeans continued to be a durable, staple for those engaged in hard labor.
In the 1940’s GI’s (World War II soldiers) in Europe and the Far East wore denim jeans while off duty. Although this development was not widespread, when combined with popular music and movies many began to associate denim jeans with our uniquely American way of life, laying the groundwork for the future spread of American culture around the world.
Fueled by Hollywood movies and the rise of the youth culture in the 1950’s and 60’s denim jeans were often associated with rebellion and delinquency. The adoption of denims by certain sub-cultures such as rock-n-rollers and motorcycle riders was viewed as further eroding traditional values and respect for authority. Think James Dean and rebel without a cause (1955) or Marlin Brando in “The Wild One” (1953). Both of which clashed with an America that placed an emphasis on conformity and respectability.
The 1960’s were marked with significant social and cultural change. The rise of a counterculture, the civil rights movement along with anti-Vietnam war protests infiltrated nearly every part of our lives. Baby boomers turned denim into a canvas for personal expression and of course, rebellion. What better way to express our identities, beliefs and affiliations? Not to mention pi*s them off.
Here are a few you may recall:
Let’s not forget the co-opting of naval pants and their reincarnation as “bellbottoms”. I always felt they were more for women. Especially when hip-huggers were added to this look, lowering the waist line often to uncomfortable levels. Then, of course, stretch jeans made with elastic (spandex) came along. They were more like an outer layer of skin. If you looked like Barbie or Ken, you were fine.
Note: I still remember the very first time as an older teen, I purchased my first pair of blue jeans. Just plain old Levis, blue and stiff. I must have been away at college. They cost me five bucks. The same as a fast-food hamburger today.
Denim jackets popularized by the Marlboro man seemed to be everywhere. I wore one to Woodstock in 1969. Unlike my sleeping bag it survived another 20 years.
The 1970’s and 80’s witnessed the expansion of denim jeans into the very heart of mainstream fashion. Brands like Gloria Vanderbilt, Calvin Klein and Jordache combined street ware denims with high fashion giving us “designer jeans”. A bit more stylish and comfortable, they also carried a hefty price tag.
Distressed denim as we know it today began in the 1990’s as part of the Grunge fashion movement. Grunge icons like Kurt Cobain of Nirvana and bands like Pearl Jam and Soundgarden wore torn jeans as part of their signature look. Then all hell broke loose and the wearing of distressed denim jeans went from a niche fashion trend to ubiquitous. They seemed to be everywhere and in every closet. History clearly shows, if you have an agenda, a cause, a complaint, or simply want to make a statement “do it with denim”. No other article of clothing seems to have such universal messaging appeal or staying power.
The Fashion Industry is a multi-trillion-dollar global enterprise influencing not just what people wear, but also significantly impacting global economies, cultural practices, and social norms. I’m up against a juggernaut. In addition, as mentioned earlier I may be offending a substantial number of women across every demographic. Women who either wear or will support to the death, the right of others to wear Holey Jeans. Therefore, I must bring in the BIG GUNS. I will rely upon a dash of good old fashioned plausible, hyperbole. The righteous embellishment of my version of the truth.
I am calling upon women across America and the world to please discontinue wearing denim jeans that are distressed, blown out, ripped, frayed or worse. Here is why:
Life Span- This fad even if universally practiced has lived well beyond its historic expiration date. Make room for others. Think wide ties, miniskirts, tie-dyed, paisley, etc. They come and go. So can this fad, hopefully for good.
Social consciousness-
Arguably, never in the history of mankind have so many showed such a high regard for the need’s, rights, feelings and safety of nearly every type of minority group or subculture: Including race, creed, economic level, sexual orientation, immigration, status, neural diversity or physical handicap. There’s a group watching over every one of them and their well-being. It seems to me the blown-out denim jeans trend is out of step with the spirit of today’s kinder, gentler, social consciousness.
Sweat Shop manufacturing. I came across a video of this woman distressing a pair of jeans somewhere in China. You can view the entire Reddit video by clicking here. Pretty shocking to watch. Notice the buildup of denim material in her ear. Hopefully a wakeup call to everyone enabling these deplorable working conditions in 3rd world countries and in less regulated nations such as China.
Finally
It is not my desire to quash anyone’s right to self-expression. I am not calling for a worldwide ban on distressed jeans. Rather, I encourage you to take a new look at this trend and your possible involvement in fostering disrespect for those less fortunate. A voluntary abstinence that would send a clear message of support for ethical manufacturing. Tell your friends.
Now it’s time to Take the Pledge. Send a copy to a friend.
Tear along dotted line and mail to me.
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I left my home in the small Western New York city of Batavia in March 1977 vowing never to shovel snow again. Never say never. Settling for 38 years in what was for me the "promised land" of Santa Barbara, California. I married, helped raise a family, started a business, traveled and live a wonderful life. We spent the last 10 years of our west coast journey in the small, quiet, picturesque town of Ojai. My oldest friends call me TJ.
My wife Deborah and I moved to Colorado in 2015 to be near our daughter, her husband and 2 growing grand-boys. Add 2 bulldogs (French & English) to the mix and our hands and hearts are full. We all reside in Niwot, a small quaint town 15 minutes north of Boulder. The mighty Rocky Mountains are at our doorstep.
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Paul
Thank you for your in-Jean-ious insights into a problem plaguing all America, and by that I mean the entire universe.
Some minor appendages I must include:
But most importantly, I take your pledge to NOT wear unholy, hole-y, or wholly overdecorated jeans. In fact, put me in a time machine, whisk me back 15 years, and I will take the pledge then too, since I have not worn jeans of any kind in at least that many years. You know why? Because the knees rip and I don’t need any more shorts.
Jim
TJ
Oh, I have strong opinions about ripped jeans. Thank God you came by these holes in the tried-and-true fashion expected of any red-blooded male. It’s beyond comprehension why anyone would pay good money for clothes with holes in them. I’m sure that 100 years from now the historians will have a lot to say about this trend, probably in attempting to explain the decline of modern civilization.
At any rate, wear your torn jeans with pride and for God’s Sake don’t throw them away! Someone will pay good money for these jeans on Craigslist or Ebay.
Dan
DC
What do you think? $100 on Ebay?
TJ
TJ-
Ripped Jeans is well written and thoughtful. Some side notes stirred in me while reading it.
My first pair of jeans was purchased at Count’s Western Store in Tenley Heights at age 13. My older cousin had a pair. They were white Levi’s and therefore not actual denim because they were not blue. Mom (and our French teacher in school) told us kids that denim got its name from Nimes, France. Denim literally means ‘from Nimes’ or de Nimes, if you took any French classes in school.
In the late 1960’s it became popular for teenagers to make ‘cutoffs’ where I lived. That was partly because those hot old jeans in summertime weren’t necessary, we had grown too tall to wear them but the waist still fit, and it was a free way to get a new pair of shorts that were considered fashionable by teenagers.
As our society’s general culture has changed over the years, people tend to wear less formal clothes. Today network and streaming newscasters are less likely to wear formal clothes on air. When you see old photos or movies from the 1920’s, just about every man wore a suit. Charlie Chaplin in The Tramp, wore a suit. It was a way to demonstrate to society you were not poor. Also a suit keeps you warm in colder climates. It seems to me that economically well off people of today in the USA want to demonstrate they are not stuck up and are trying to blend in with the poor.
It is ironic that some people may use torn jeans as a fashion to show more skin. Is this designed to be provocative? Who does it provoke? The opposite sex? Religions that frown on a female revealing that she is female? As Paul asks, “could this be perceived as disrespectful, rude, or insulting? It is not for me to say.”
Today black Levis are my favorite as they have been for decades. It is the fit I like. They are comfortable. However, I would buy a pair of white Levis if I could find them.
PWH
Thanks for you always welcome comments.
TJ
Peter sent this picture. Another blue jean statement.
Quite an in-depth discussion of jeans. I can honestly say that I have never work distressed ones and, after reading your post, I never will. Good work!
Thank you. Gladys. Wait till you see my follow up.
Paul
Paul, I loved the article on distressed jeans. Linda and I have a surrogate daughter, now 28 years old who wears these jeans often. I’ve offered to buy her a complete pair, unaltered but to no avail. I’m debating if I should forward your blog to her.
Andy,
Thanks. It’s your call.
Paul
Paul, I am in total agreement with your comments. I have not deliberately purchased and/or worn distressed denim for fashion; and, I never will. Thanks for a timely blog. Joe D
Sorry, no pledging here. I like your point about decreased longevity and additional waste – it is well taken. However, any distressed jeans that have eventually fallen apart on me didn’t do so in the distressed spots. It’s the softer more comfortable denim used in general these days that seems to be the weak point. Fashion, in general, is no longer built to last. I would also argue that the normalizing of less formal/tidy clothes probably makes it easier to fit in as someone (particularly a teen) who cannot afford the latest trend. One can distress their own jeans for free any day. For me, slipping on my one pair of distressed jeans (by the way, plenty of men wear this trend too) reminds me that I am in dressed-down comfort mode – they are a symbol to relax. They are comfortable and comforting and the opposite of so much of what women’s fashion often is. Your point is duly noted, but I’ll be keeping them in the regular rotation 🙂
I can only try.
Thanks.